"Sex is a topic that is constantly on all of our minds, yet is rarely discussed in a honest manner in public, FEEL FREE to discuss all your fantasies here"
Because sex is discussed, must it translate to sex? That's where some of you got it wrong and missed the mark.
The reason some babes run from you is not because of the lean pocket but the desperation. Many people believe sex is donated freely on this forum. Maybe in the past it was, I can't say, because I was not there but with what I have observed, its easier for a camel to enter a needle's eye that for a regular guy to fuck a babe here. Am not talking of the badoo here ooo

. One thing I know is that some guys have been lucky here just like that. Without any extra effort and no money in their pockets.
Now to your meet up. The only reason why it will never happen is because many guys here are so immature that they cannot control their libido. You see sexual frustration written all over them. Why would any decent lady subject herself to such an ordeal.
I remember a guy I met and we were supposed to go for lunch. The agreement was we will go dutch, I insisted. On our way to the restaurant, you will see the guy deliberately brush his hand on my thigh. How can that be possible for a car that is automatic shift stick. It was so annoying but I was already famished. We finished lunch, the next thing I heard was, let's find a place to relax. Relax on top of what now? I was so angry but I masked my anger. I allowed him to go ahead. Meanwhile I was pinging my cab man. The moment I knew where we were heading, I asked him to meet me there. When we got there, he went inside to make arrangements. I called him to tell him I wanted to quickly use the rest room. I just joined my cab and left. I did not pick his call again. Why must it always be so.
Now we now have our females that have given some of us a bad rep. You are just ready to give it to the highest bidder. You turn yourself to a ping pong ball. As long as the pay is right. You have forgotten that most of these guys know what they are doing. Respectable guys don't pay for sex only assholes.
Sex should be mutual. And a guy should be man enough to live up to the calling. You are not expected to pay for sex but you should be able to make her comfortable. Good food, and any other thing befitting a lady. And even if you are dropping her off, just a token in appreciation. No be olosho you carry.
I believe a meet can happen but not until naf has been overhauled.