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STDs, HIV and ORAL sex
« on: May 01, 2013, 08:15:52 AM »
Hello nafites, what's d risk of getting hiv and std's during oral sex. ( I mean fellatio and cunningulus). My gf gives me fellatio a lot and she enjoys it but on my own part am being skeptical givin her cunningulus cos I can't b too sure of her status . We met early ds year and gradually we ve bn building up our sexual intimacy. I know very soon she would b wondering why I dnt really take my tongue down there rather I used my fingers to tease her before the main action.
 Really I want to take her to pleasurable heights with my tongue but am just scared bcos of ds stds them n big H.
   I raised d issue bcos a lot of guys here n somewhere else will tell u" I can lick a pussy dry, I can do ds n I can do that and when it comes to d sex, they use d condom . Y wld u use d condom then when already wat u r protecting wit ur dick, u got it thru d mouth (just tinkin).
  So guys wats d risk? My grl is on her way right now n today na today (public hols)

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STDs, HIV and ORAL sex
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Re: STDs, HIV and ORAL sex
« Reply #1 on: May 01, 2013, 12:07:57 PM »
Hi

You stand almost the same risk at contacting STD's through your mouth as you do through your genitals.  In the case of HIV, you need an open wound(Ulcer) or tear to be infected. Even with a condom you can still catch STDs such as HPV( links below) which cause Warts, also Herpes among others. There is no sure way to avoid STDs except through abstinence.

You can also do STD tests but there is still a 5% chance that a test would not pick up on an enzyme or proteins needed to test for the virus/bacteria at the time of test.

As you receive, so shall you give. Good luck.


http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Human_papillomavirus#Genital_infections

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Herpes_simplex#Barrier_methods

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Re: STDs, HIV and ORAL sex
« Reply #2 on: May 01, 2013, 02:02:24 PM »
Thanks shagme. Am hearing this for d first time that even with condoms, std's are inevitable.
As regards cuts , I see the tongue as been a natural cut with those tiny tastebuds and I c d vagina as same. The skin of d vagina wall and the tongue been what they are do not need to have wound(cut) before any sort of transmission can take place(dats my own lame man feeling ooo). Let's do a small test by putting methylated spirit on those sensitive parts , if one can feel so much hurt then I think transmission is inevitable.
Secondly, does d vagina juice contain any of those diseases if d lady has it? If she does, then I don't think the guy would need to have any cut before he gets it thru d mouth.

Thanks again for ur response

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Re: STDs, HIV and ORAL sex
« Reply #3 on: May 01, 2013, 03:27:47 PM »
I is fearing oh!no more oral sex ever!

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Re: STDs, HIV and ORAL sex
« Reply #4 on: May 01, 2013, 03:39:29 PM »
Me, I have been sucking pussy since I was born o. Why haven't I caught an STI?

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Re: STDs, HIV and ORAL sex
« Reply #5 on: May 01, 2013, 04:28:54 PM »
Me, I have been sucking pussy since I was born o. Why haven't I caught an STI?

Sugargirl, abeg stop after me nau :p

Mighty, when last did you have a full spectrum STD test done, chances are that you already have one is 80:20. 80 being that you test positive for one. :D  I wish you well though and God's mercy.

Virgoman, the vagina and tongue aren't open per se. They have a nanoscopic( even smaller) membrane that prevent them from healing shut or things getting through it just like your skin. like you said, the pure ethanol test is good to identify cuts but who would want to pour it into them.

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Re: STDs, HIV and ORAL sex
« Reply #6 on: May 01, 2013, 07:56:21 PM »
The need to be careful cannot be over emphasized.
Though not easy in action.

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Re: STDs, HIV and ORAL sex
« Reply #7 on: May 02, 2013, 08:17:33 AM »
Esp as regards HIV,vaginal secretions do carry a marked amount of d virus as does semen in guys,saliva's viral content is negligible but as oral sex brings1 partner in contact with the sexual secretions of d other......
D trick is2avoid contact with each others bodily fluids(&i dnt min sweat) hence ur CD has2 be worn 1ce erection achieved,accordingly lubricated&removed after ejaculation b4 d penis bcums limp.Any other inovations u wish2try,well ur on ur own

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Re: STDs, HIV and ORAL sex
« Reply #8 on: May 02, 2013, 12:05:14 PM »
Very educative.

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Re: STDs, HIV and ORAL sex
« Reply #9 on: May 02, 2013, 10:23:39 PM »
Never again i swear will lick pussy except mouth condom dey

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Re: STDs, HIV and ORAL sex
« Reply #10 on: May 03, 2013, 07:29:30 AM »
Never again i swear will lick pussy except mouth condom dey
Good one @lastdon no ever try am again you hear?

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Never again i swear will lick pussy except mouth condom dey
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Re: STDs, HIV and ORAL sex
« Reply #11 on: May 03, 2013, 07:44:14 AM »

Mighty, when last did you have a full spectrum STD test done, chances are that you already have one is 80:20. 80 being that you test positive for one. :D  I wish you well though and God's mercy.


Oga you dey swear for me? Which one be I get 80% chance of STD. Abeg park well jor.

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Re: STDs, HIV and ORAL sex
« Reply #12 on: May 03, 2013, 10:04:14 AM »
Guys good one....and a good advice to all who stick their mouth and tongue into anything pussy they see. However, there's a protective wrapper used in oral sex.
I think the woman giving a bj is more at risk, though.

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Re: STDs, HIV and ORAL sex
« Reply #13 on: May 03, 2013, 06:22:02 PM »
So fellow nafites, sex is good but do it with brains at work. Everybody loves sex and wants to explore different things but why would some minutes/hours enjoyment turn sour at the end.
And for some attention grabbers here who says things like " I want a pussy to lick dry", , " I do wonders with my tongue, I can take u to cloud7), . O Y O for you.

Hey!  if u hv a faithful partner n u guys are free of any viruses or infections, y not explore to d fullest. Abeg dey lick dey go jooor

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Re: STDs, HIV and ORAL sex
« Reply #14 on: May 03, 2013, 06:28:46 PM »
Hey!  if u hv a faithful partner n u guys are free of any viruses or infections, y not explore to d fullest. Abeg dey lick dey go jooor

No shaking bro.
Go on.
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Re: STDs, HIV and ORAL sex
« Reply #15 on: May 03, 2013, 11:06:19 PM »
Never again i swear will lick pussy except mouth condom dey
E fit work o....im sure 100yrs ago wen d inventor of condoms was telling guys of sockings he had designed4 d dick 4d purpose of preventin 'wahala',ppl tot he was crazy
so who knows,1 day we fit wear condom4mouth,do oral without fear

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Re: STDs, HIV and ORAL sex
« Reply #16 on: May 04, 2013, 06:43:05 AM »
I've read it a few times....you don't get hiv from kissing and oral sex, because the saliva serves as a protective shield....but one cannot tell if it is a hypothesis or fact.
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Re: STDs, HIV and ORAL sex
« Reply #17 on: May 04, 2013, 08:08:22 AM »
people do not get hiv via oral sex...but other stds like gonohrria ...yes...oral warts yes..etc....do ur research


You can definitely contact HIV via kissing and oral sex, if infected semen gets into a wound in the mouth. Semen is not always ejaculated only during climax but from the moment a man becomes aroused to climax and minutes after.  From a woman, she needs to have an open wound. It's a lot difficult contacting HIV from a woman than from a man simply because semen contains more cells (spermatozoa) please read articles(link below (1)(2)).

Think of it this way, any cell is capable of carrying the virus 'cos every cell contains DNA which is what the HIV attaches itself to. In the case of saliva, you need about a glass of it to get infected.(Link below(3)). See Myth #8 and #9 in (3)

(1) http://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2009/10/091026093715.htm
(2) http://journals.lww.com/aidsonline/Abstract/2004/03260/Factors_of_intermittent_HIV_1_excretion_in_semen.6.aspx
(3) http://www.hpb.gov.sg/HOPPortal/health-article/6260
(4) http://www.aidsmap.com/HIV-in-saliva/page/1323976/
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« Reply #18 on: May 04, 2013, 10:53:43 AM »
Acquisition of Knowledge is for life.

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Re: STDs, HIV and ORAL sex
« Reply #19 on: May 04, 2013, 01:09:58 PM »
Am learning THINGS ... Very educative. I ddnt know this post will get to this. @shagme and others good research u have there. E who get eyes n hears make e take caution